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Jewish Thought of the Week (06/06/2025)

 

Dear Friends,

Do you have an elevator pitch?

In the business world, it's a familiar concept. Imagine you're in an elevator, and next to you stands a billionaire who could fund your business and change your life forever. You have just 30 to 60 seconds to make your case. You need to be clear, focused, and persuasive.

Many people have an elevator pitch ready. Others are still working to define their mission and goals. Either way, having a strong, concise message can be a powerful tool.

This week, I discovered the most powerful elevator pitch ever created. It's only three words long.

And it doesn't come from a tech startup, a Fortune 500 company, or a nonprofit. It comes from our Parsha, Parshat Naso.

So what is the elevator pitch of this week's Parsha?

It's brilliantly simple: be an elevator.

Yes, really.

Parshat Naso is long and filled with many events and mitzvot. But even before reading the content, the name tells us everything. Naso is a command. It means: lift up, elevate. In short, be an elevator.

So who should you lift up?

Start with yourself. Could you use a boost? Then think about those around you — family, friends, even a stranger in the supermarket. Chances are, they could use one too.

We just celebrated Shavuot, when G-d gave us the Torah. That moment, 3,337 years ago, gave us purpose and direction. From then on, we were empowered to bring holiness into the world. And with it, meaning and joy.

It’s ironic. We live in the most comfortable era in history. Tasks that once took hours now take minutes. Yet many still feel low, disconnected, or overwhelmed.

The Torah recognizes this. It gives us both a command and a solution: lift up. Yourself. Others. Every day.

How do we become an elevator?

By tethering ourselves higher. When we connect more deeply with G-d, we begin to feel better on the inside. That inner strength enables us to be a positive influence on the people around us.

And guess what? Even the billionaire in the elevator next to you might need a little inspiration. Opportunities to lift others are all around us.

(Thank you to Rabbi Mendy Kaminker for sharing his wisdom with us).

Wishing you a good Shabbos,
Rabbi Yitzi Hein

Think Jewish (05/16/2025)

 

Dear Friends,

Remember the radio commercial from the Men’s Warehouse, where founder George Zimmer would end off with “You’ll like the way you look. I guarantee it”? Well how about if we could co-opt that to talk about our soul and liking the way we feel internally, with a guarantee no less?

Today is the official holiday of Lag BaOmer! In case you need a refresher: Lag B’omer is the day of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, a.k.a. by his acronym “Rashbi,” who was a great Talmudic sage in the 2nd century CE. He showed how the “body” of Torah and its “soul”, (the inner, mystical, spiritual dimension) go hand in hand. He was the first person to teach the Kabbalah (spiritual aspect of Torah) to a group of disciples, which they wrote in the ‘Zohar’. He proclaimed the day of Lag BaOmer (his passing) as a time of rejoicing and an auspicious day for all. 

Some of the customs of this holiday include making a bonfire (representing the soul teachings of the Torah) and Jewish children play a central role in Lag BaOmer celebrations. They are taken to fields to play with bows and arrows. How is that connected with Lag Baomer?

 Rashbi taught love and connection between all aspects of Torah and all types of people. He brought about forgiveness and protection for all the world. In his day no rainbow was seen (Rashi on Sedra Noach 9:12), because it was not needed (if you remember, the Torah tells how the rainbow became G-d’s sign that even when society is morally declining, that G-d will never bring another Flood).

The bow of the bow and arrow reminds us of the rainbow which was replaced by Rashbi.  The Lubavitcher Rebbe teaches a deeper and more positive lesson about the connection to the bow and arrow. In ancient times there were other weapons that were suited to close combat (like the sword). The bow and arrow was invented to reach more distant targets, including more distant enemies who are hard to see.   Spiritually, we all have faults in our character that are more visible and therefore easier to eradicate, if we work on ourselves. We also have deeper spiritual weaknesses that are not immediately evident, and need a different kind of weapon to overcome. That weapon is the spiritual bow and arrow.  The further back one pulls the string of the bow , the farther the arrow will fly. This weapon represents the spiritual teachings of Torah, which are nowadays accessible in the teachings of Chassidus (Tanya, Sichas etc.) Pulling the string further back means focusing more on our inner self, and this enables connecting to our core (Neshama) and to a paradigm shift in Avodas Hashem.   Thus the spiritual teachings of Rabbi Shimon Ben Yochai are compared to the bow and arrow. They give us access to our inner core, and the power to deal with even the most distant enemy.   I would like to speak from personal recent experience. While as a student I studied some of these teachings in Chabad Yeshiva and even on my own , I was too young to really appreciate them. 

Recently, I have joined a virtual learning community of Chassidus and have focused on really understanding these inner teachings. It has made me so much more aware of our inner power.

Setting up a regular time for studying Chassidus enhances one’s whole life inner journey. 

I would love to help any of you find a workable medium (podcast or online or in-person) to make these teachings part of your week. Please email me [email protected] or text 585-286-6147 (don’t be shy – I am excited to share some ideas to help anyone interested)! Rishi is also available [email protected] and it is our honor and joy to help others find these teachings in a relevant way.

You’ll like the way you feel inside. I guarantee it.

Shabbat Shalom! Good Shabbos! 

Rabbi Yitzi Hein

Jewish Thought of the Week (05/09/2025)

 

Dear Friends,

Is it possible to lead a life where your soul is a real defining force that guides your day-to-day? Is it possible to view yourself and others as souls on a journey? 

The holy books in Judaism say it is, but can you think of someone who you met who actually lives like that?

One such person was Rabbi Sholom D. Lipskar, a rare leader that the Jewish world lost this past week with his untimely passing at 78.

His accomplishments are long but two of the big ones are: Founder and Rabbi of the famous Shul of Bal Harbour and Founder of the Aleph Institute that helps Jewish incarcerated men and women and their families be supported in their time of need.

I had the privilege of meeting him once when we brought him as a speaker for our Jewish Legal Symposium on the topic of prison reform (see pic above - he is the Rabbi on right).

But I think his real accomplishment was being a walking example of the most basic principle of the Torah(from this week's Parsha Kedoshim): "Love your fellow as you love yourself  ואהבת לרעך כמוך".

There is the famous story of the Talmudic sage Hillel who was asked by a potential convert to Judaism to encapsulate the whole Torah while he stands on one foot. Hillel replied that this 1 mitzvah of "Love your fellow as you love yourself - This is the entire Torah. Everything else is commentary. Now go learn the rest."

A heartwarming story but it seems problematic. How can that be the summation of the *entire* Torah? In the Torah there are two types of commandment: those concerning our relationship with G-d Almighty, and those that govern our relationship with others. Loving your neighbour as yourself can indeed sum up the Mitzvot of interpersonal relationships.

But how does love of one’s neighbour enhance the Mitzvot between a person and G-d Almighty, for example Kashrut, Mezuzah, Praying, Shabbat and all the others?

Also: The Mitzvah to love another as yourself is itself difficult to understand. Is it *natural* to feel for another person like one feels for oneself? Is it humanly *possible*? Like yourself?

In Tanya (Chapter 32 - “Lev”) the Alter Rebbe (first Chabad Rebbe) explains that there is a way that enables us to perform this Mitzvah literally. To love another unconditionally, just as one loves oneself. It is through training ourselves to see the Neshama, the spiritual essence of everything as the true reality.

All the Neshamos (souls) come from the same spiritual Source. There, they are all one. Loving the other *is* loving oneself. When the right hand helps the left hand it is not helping another; it is helping itself.

See the other person not for any externalities or actions or thoughts, but for what they really are in essence: a Neshama which is part of my own Neshama.

How can we cultivate such a spiritual perspective on viewing others? 

I think the life of Rabbi Lipskar was an example of that. He loved the Torah, G-d and his teacher the Rebbe so much, that he could sense the souls of others, be they world-leaders or incarcerated individuals. And together he and they would bring goodness and healing to the world.

In simple words: we should learn Torah and do mitzvos with the teachings of the Rebbe, because that literally gives us glasses of how to relate to the deeper reality of people's souls and make our destiny a redemptive one!

May his memory be a blessing and inspiration to bring that approach into our lives here in Rochester, and may his example guide us all in relating to others and bringing Redemption to the world.

Good Shabbos/Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Yitzi Hein

Jewish Thought of the Week (05/02/2025)

 
Dear Friends,
 

Someone ever tell you “Make it a great day!”?

If we were to Jewish-ify that, we would say “Make it a shining day”! (Always a little different, those Jews :))

How do you make your day a shining one? By making each day count or count each day.

Let’s explain: In Hebrew the word to count is Lisph(f)or. Notice the root of the word sphor which also means sapphire. In Hebrew the two words (to count and sapphire) share almost all of the letters. They are also related to the word for shining just as a sapphire shines.

It is very evident that if you make each day count and meaningful then your days will shine.

How does one do this?

For that we have yet another word in Hebrew with the same root -Sipur, which means a story or to tell a story.

Picture yourself at the end of the day taking a few moments to recount your story - the events of the day. The things you did and didn't do. The things you wished you had done and the things you wished you hadn't. 

Now picture yourself telling tomorrow's story, how do you want it to be? What are the things you want to be proud of in tomorrow's accomplishments?  What are the things you hope to avoid tomorrow? Who are the people you want to be with tomorrow? What are the personal struggles you hope to be victorious over tomorrow?

Why I am telling you this now? It has to do with where we find ourselves in the Jewish calendar now.

From the second day of Pesach (Passover) until the holiday of Shavout, we count the Omer, a total of 49 days.  In Hebrew Sefirat Ha'Omer - counting of the Omer (notice the root word here Sefira). This counting is a personal journey from Passover to Shavout, a journey of counting and rewriting or writing our story.

Try this for the next 31 days until Shavout - each evening count the number of days that have passed. Count the number and then recount the events of the day. Then take another moment and write your story for tomorrow. 

See what a difference it will make in your life. Click  here to learn more. (Thank you to my friend Rabbi Eliyahu Shusterman for sharing this with me)

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Yitzi Hein

 

Jewish Thought of the Week (04/23/2025)

 

Dear Friends,

What’s the difference between a Jew and a Frenchman at a party?

A Frenchman leaves and doesn't say goodbye; a Jew says goodbye and doesn't leave. (Old Jewish Joke)

Passover feels like it was forever ago, right?

It ended just a few days back. But now that we have packed the Passover dishes and the shelves at the Kosher store are once again stocked with fresh bagels, it does feel like the season has passed.

So, let's say it together: Goodbye Passover!

But wait. It will be a Jewish goodbye.

Which means it's going to take a while. Because we don't want to say goodbye, we want Passover's lessons to stay with us for a bit longer.

The truth is, the season is not truly over. Look at the Jewish calendar: we are still in the Hebrew month of Nissan (not the car company), "the month of miracles."

And while we might not need to eat Matzah anymore, there is something we just keep and cherish: the Nissan energy.

The Nissan energy is about a G-d who didn't forget his children.

It's about a nation of slaves with no path to freedom, no power, and no plan. Yet they walked out of Egypt, not as fugitives, but as a free people. Not because it made sense but because G-d Himself took them out.

And it's about a people who, more than 3,000 years later, still stand tall. Not because the odds were ever in our favor but because they never bound us to begin with. We don't live by the rules of nature. We live with the truth of something higher.

Take Shabbat, for example. Does it make sense to disengage from the word for an entire day completely? What if there is a good business deal that we might miss? According to the rules of nature, we might be missing a lot of money. But we don't care because the rules do not apply to us.

So, as we say goodbye to Passover and the month of Nissan, let's take another few moments to appreciate this month's gifts. And next time we encounter any challenge, we will never say "we can't" or "it's not going to work."

Because Nissan energy is here to stay. (Thank you to Rabbi Mendy Kaminker for sharing the above idea with me).

Wishing you a good Shabbos!

Rabbi Yitzi Hein  

Jewish Thought of the Week (04/18/2025)

 

Dear Friends,

My friend Rabbi Eliyahu Shusterman shared this idea; "people say you need to see it to believe it, but perhaps you need to believe it to see it"?!

We are entering into the final two days of Pesach. The first days theme is the Exodus from Egypt while the last day is focused on the future redemption with Moshiach.

Generally, the natural thinking mind is resistant to the entire notion of miracles. After all, by definition miracles are above nature.

So how do we get to believing if the mind wants to see it first?  The answer; start believing and you'll see.  In the big book of AA, there is an idea that one needs to act their way into a new way of thinking.  

I'd like to suggest that similarly we act ourselves into believing.

If one acts as if the world is already in a messianic state; expansive thinking, expansive acting, living large according to G-d's will, doing the mitzvos that are asked of us even with a sense of surrender and abandon, the light will go on and the belief will kick in.

The ideal is believing in to seeing. But, if you must see to believe, we don't need to look further than these past 18 months.  We've experienced miracle after miracle affecting our People in Israel and abroad.

Please join me on Sunday April 20 at 7:00 PM for a Festival of the Future - Moshiach feast (RSVP here or below). This is a tradition started by the Baal Shem Tov, later added to by the Chabad Rebbe's to bring the energy of Pesach and Moshiach into the mundane days that follow.  We'll have Matzah, wine, light food and song and story galore. I hope you'll join me. Please reply if you'll join.

Wishing you a wonderful end of Pesach and happy Believing!

Rabbi Yitzi Hein

P.S. Our Passover Appeal is still open here- if you would like to make a donation of any size to partner in bringing Passover energy to our community - we'd be honored and grateful!

 

 

Jewish Thought of the Week (04/04/2025)


Dear Friends,

When we look at our strengths and talents, we are more comfortable accepting that these are by design.  But the negative qualities are more difficult to accept.  However, to quote Rabbi Taub; "these are features not bugs".  

In this week's Torah portion, in a subtle yet powerful manner, this point is expressed.  

This week we begin to read the 3rd book of the Torah, the book of Vayikra - Leviticus.  In this book, we read about the various offerings that were brought into the portable Mishkan (Tabernacle) and later in the Beit Hamikdash (Temple) in Jerusalem.

As I have the privilege to teach daily Chumash with Rashi 9am on zoom (if you ever want to join this special zoom, just reply to the email with your phone number to receive the daily text invite) we went through a lot of different offerings, both for the communal and for the individual. In the individual, it talks about the rich person's offering (a sheep) , the middle class person's offering (a bird) and the poor man's offering (some flour).

In telling us about the offering of the poor man, the Torah uses the unique expression, "If a soul brings an offering". It doesn't use this expression when talking about the rich or middle class person's offering.

Rashi (11th Century famous biblical commentator) quotes the Talmud that says that since the offering is of the poor person, who may feel down that all he can bring is a poor offering, the Torah wants to lift his spirits and as such tells us that G-d considers it as if he offered his very soul to G-d.

I think the Torah is validating the struggle of the poor person whose poverty consists of poor qualities as well.  Being poor generally is not something someone chooses.  Additionally, the poor person is likely doing everything they can to no longer be poor.  Nonetheless, the Torah and G-d validate the circumstances and the feelings that come with it.  How true is it then, in regard to poverty of better qualities that G-d validates us and our struggle.

Being that all of us can relate to being a 'poor person' in some area of life, we ought to continue working to liberate ourselves from our negative qualities.  But, as the poor person too, until such time that these qualities are transformed, it is part of G-d's masterplan.  Bringing ourselves with our shortcomings to the table in service of Hashem, is considered an offering of our very souls (Thank you to my friend Eliyahu Schusterman for sharing that idea).

I was thinking about this and want to add another bonus:there is something special when we give our 'poor person offering' that doesn't exist in the 'rich/middle class offering.' 

You see, when you do a good deed and everything works out and you "knock it out of the park" you also feel really, really good about yourself. While self-esteem is important (and we are wired to feel good about doing good) that sentiment of self-satisfaction takes away from the selflessness of the act (again this is not good vs. bad just a subtle nuance). 

But when Providence presents you with failure or modest success in your attempts to do good, only you and G-d are left with knowing you did your best. 
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And that my friends is the truest offering to the Almighty and the world. Lchaim!

Have a good Shabbos!  
Rabbi Yitzi Hein

Jewish Thought of the Week (03/28/2025)

 

Hi Friends,

Today is my father's Yahrzeit and I want to share a personal Passover memory. 

Growing up in New Jersey, my parents raised us in a warm Jewish home inspired by Chabad's ethos of sharing. My dad (may his memory be a blessing) and my mom worked full-time as an engineer and a caterer respectively. But as proud Jews, they always found ways to share Jewish life and traditions with other families in our community.

One example that stands out is Passover—they would order extra matzah to give to neighbors in Mountain Lakes and Morristown, NJ. They didn’t run a Chabad center—just a Jewish home that embraced the mitzvah of “Loving your fellow as yourself.” I still remember delivering matzah in my dad's 1989 Nissan Maxima and having guests over every Passover and the impression it made.

Tonight and tomorrow mark the yahrzeit of my father, Chaim Yehuda ben Nosson. As we launch our Matzah Ambassadors project next week, I want to dedicate this effort in his memory and merit.

I’d love for you to join us in this project as a volunteer or supporter. Together, we can share the beauty of Passover. You can learn more and get involved here

To connect a Jewish home with this week's Torah portion - I would like to share with you a thought from the great Yanki Tauber.

Nations go to war over it, families sign away a sizeable chunk of their income for the next thirty years to acquire one. The sages of the Talmud go so far as to say that “a man without a homestead is not a man.”

A home is more than a roof to keep out the rain, walls to keep out unwanted visitors, a kitchen in which to prepare food and a bed in which to sleep. Forts, office buildings, hotels and restaurants can perform those functions as well, or better, than any residence. But only at home is a person at home. Home is where you can make faces at the mirror, wear an old green sweater with a hole under the armpit, and eat pickles with peanut butter—because you feel like it.

G d, too, desires a home—a place where He can be fully and uninhibitedly Himself. The chassidic masters ask: Why did G d create the physical world? What can our coarse, finite, strife-ridden existence give Him that the spiritual dimensions of creation cannot? And they answer: G d created the physical world because He wanted a home—a place where He can do things because He feels like it.

G d’s first home was a two-room, 45-by-15-foot building. According to Exodus 25, it was made of the following materials: gold, silver, copper, blue-, purple- and red-dyed wool, flax, goat hair, animal hides and wood. It was made to order, from detailed specifications given to Moses at Mount Sinai. It sat in the very center of the Israelite camp in the desert, and was designed so that it could be dismantled and reassembled as they wandered from place to place for the forty years between their exodus from Egypt and their entry into the Holy Land. Later, a larger and more permanent version was constructed on the Temple Mount in Jerusalem.

Said G d to man: I created wisdom, knowledge and understanding, and in these creations My mind dwells. I created love, justice and compassion, and in these my character resides. I created beauty, splendor and majesty, and in these I invest My personality. But none of these are My home, any more than the office at which you work or the theater at which you are entertained is yours. So I created physical matter—the most undivine thing I could conceive of—so that I should have a place in which there are no roles for Me to play and no characteristics for Me to project. Only My will to fulfill.

When you take your gold (your material excesses), your silver (your stolid middle-class wealth) and your copper (your pauper’s subsistence pennies) and use them to fashion a reality that conforms to My will, you have made Me at home in My world.  


Rabbi Yitzi and Rishi Hein 

Jewish Thought of the Week (03/21/2025)

 

Dear Friend, 

When the Jewish people built the Mishkan (Tabernacle), they were asked to donate materials—gold, silver, and copper. On the surface, this seems simple. Some people could afford gold, others silver, and those with less gave copper.

But the Lubavitcher Rebbe explains that these metals represent something much deeper. Gold symbolizes the tzaddik, the perfectly righteous person. Silver represents the baal teshuvah, the one who has made mistakes but longs to return to G‑d—sometimes even more passionately than the tzaddik. And copper, the simplest metal, represents the person who is still struggling but is doing good deeds, even if they are not perfect.

And yet, the Mishkan—the place where G‑d’s presence rested—needed all three. Because G‑d’s home isn’t just for the righteous, or for those who feel spiritually strong. It’s for everyone.

This is such a powerful message. Sometimes we think, I’m not “gold.” I don’t always get it right. Maybe I don’t belong. But G‑d says otherwise. The Mishkan wasn’t made of just gold. It was made of gold, silver, and copper. The yearning of someone trying to return, and even the simple good deeds of someone still struggling, are just as essential in making a place for G‑d in this world.

So, wherever you are in your journey, know that you matter. Your connection to G‑d, no matter what form it takes, is real. And just by being who you are, you are helping build something holy.

Thank you for all that you do, for every mitzvah, every act of kindness, and every moment of connection. It all adds up to something incredible.

Wishing you a Shabbat filled with warmth, belonging, and the knowledge that you are part of something great!

Rabbi Yitzi and Rishi Hein

Jewish Thought of the Week (03/14/2025)

 

 

Dear Friend,

It normally takes about 45 minutes (give or take!) to read the Megillah on Purim. The actual story took place over a period of more than a decade! 
We become aware of the hand of G-d (the miracle) in the Megillah through a string of episodes that may have seemed disconnected at the time. Then, suddenly, all the pieces of the puzzle were there and the greatness of the miracle was clear! 

The other type of miracle is more famous: when the laws of nature are totally suspended. For example, the splitting of the Sea on Pesach. Which type of miracle is greater? 

On the one hand, the supernatural miracles reveal G-dliness in an open, visible way. On the other hand, Chassidic teachings explain that the miracles clothed in nature have a great advantage. Supernatural miracles overpower the laws of nature and eliminate them. The miracles that appear to be coincidences actually get the natural world as it is to conform to G-d’s Will and His Plan! 

Purim teaches us to be aware of the presence of Hashem in all aspects of our life, even though it may take time to discern the details of the inner plan. But be sure: there is indeed a plan, and it will lead to a miracle. 

Life is full of moments: challenges and opportunities. Purim teaches us that when we look back at the accumulated effects of our day by day dedication we will see miracles!

HAPPY PURIM
Rabbi Yitzi and Rishi

Jewish Thought of the Week (03/07/2025)

 

Dear Friend,

There’s something unusual about this week’s parsha, Tetzaveh—Moses’ name is nowhere to be found. From the moment he was born, his name appears in every single parsha… except this one. Why?

The Baal HaTurim (a.k.a. Rabbi Jacob ben Asher (c. 1270–1340) explains that this is connected to an event that happens later in the Torah. When the Jewish people sinned with the Golden Calf, Moses pleaded with G‑d to forgive them, saying, “If You do not [forgive them], erase me from the book that You have written.” Even though G‑d did forgive the people, Moses’ words had an effect. As a result, his name is missing from one parsha—this one.


But here’s the thing: even though his name is absent, Moses himself is very much present. The entire parsha consists of G‑d speaking directly to him! And instead of his name, we see something even more personal—G‑d refers to him as ve’atah, “and you.”

A name is just a label, a way for others to identify us. But YOU! (yeah - I'm talking to you!) —that speaks to the essence of a person. By stepping aside, by being willing to give up his name for the sake of the Jewish people, Moses didn’t disappear. He became even more deeply connected to the Torah, in a way that goes beyond words.

There’s a powerful lesson here. Real impact isn’t about recognition. It’s about showing up. It’s about being there for others, even when no one sees it. 

I want to take a moment to appreciate—because you do that, too. You show up for your family, your friends, your community. You give, you care, you make a difference, often in ways that go unnoticed. And that matters.

So as we enter this Shabbat, know that your presence—your you—is felt and appreciated, more than words can express. Thank you for being part of this Chabad Pittsford community, for showing up, and for making the world just a little bit brighter.

Shabbat Shalom! 

Rabbi Yitzi Hein

Jewish Thought of the Week (02/28/2025)

 

We are live from NY!!!!

I am with our Cteens at the International Cteen Shabbaton...along with 4000 other teens and staff from all over the world for the largest Jewish teen convention ever (see our pic of the week below).

The Jewish unity is awesome and here is a dvar all about that!


What is unity? Some will say that unity is best expressed when two individuals unite and they become one. But true unity is even deeper. It is when each partner is incomplete as an individual without the other. Each one is only a half. 

This can answer a question about the Mitzvah to donate a half Shekel every year. 

(This Shabbos three Torah scrolls will be read from, which is relatively rare (besides Simchas Torah). The first is for the Sedra Terumah, about building the Temple. The second is for Shabbos Rosh Chodesh, the start of the month of Adar, the month of Simcha (joy). In the third Sefer Torah we read Parshas Shekolim, about the half Shekel that everyone donated each year for the communal offerings, thus atoning for the sin of the Golden Calf.) 

Worshipping the Golden Calf was idolatry, unfaithfulness to Hashem! Shouldn’t the Tzedaka required for atonement be expressed as a whole number? (The same half Shekel coin was also known as 10 Gera). Why does the Torah repeatedly emphasise that it is only a half? 

The atonement has to reach deep into the Neshama (Soul), expressed by the awareness that one is only a half. Becoming complete requires the other half. The other half is Hashem. With our greatest achievements we are incomplete without Him. And Hashem, in a manner of speaking (kevayochol) is incomplete without the Jew doing what Hashem created him/her for. 

The other half is also one’s fellow Jew; when we unite together in the spirit that each of us becomes complete only through the other. 

This is also the way to Simcha. Being truly happy and at peace is a choice, an experience that begins from within, regardless of external circumstance. Knowing that there is a purpose and a Partner and that we are not alone brings a sense of peace and happiness and helps to build the Temple.

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Yitzi and Rishi Hein

Jewish Thought of the Week (02/21/2025)


Dear Friend,

The Jewish people are in shock from the monstrous events yesterday: the tragic death and return of the Bibas children’s bodies.

There are two messages here: a short actionable message about the Bibas family (inspired by my colleague Chanoch Kaplan) and an incredibly upbeat social media post by Hillel Fuld with some amazing perspective, even as the tears don’t stop.  

Yarden and Shiri Bibas chose 2 names for their 2 children – Kfir and Ariel, but they are really the same name: lion.

The Torah mentions lions by 6 different names over 150 times, more so than any other animal! The Jewish people are compared to a crouching lion who springs to action to tackle the mitzvot each day. G-d himself is referred to as a lion who roars three times each night, sharing the pain of the Jewish people in exile.

We are a nation of lions. A nation who lives with the attitude and perspective of royalty, knowing the truth about the mission we represent to the world – to be “a light unto the nations.” And even when it seems we are down and out - when we are in a crouching position - you can be certain that it precipitates a giant leap upwards. In the blink of an eye, we will be back to roar our message of truth again, reminding ourselves and the entire world that we carry a holy and noble mission which cannot be held back or silenced.

Friends, the Bibas lions were taken from us, but they live on in OUR roar today!

Here's how you can roar right now to concretize the memory of these beautiful lions who were so brutally taken from us:

Light Shabbat candles today by 5:31 PM
Add a Mezuzah scroll to another doorway in your home
Do a random act of kindness
Attend a Torah class this coming week 
Pray at Shabbat morning services and hear the holy Torah this Shabbat
Give tzedakah to our community or causes in Israel
May the roar of your mitzvah bring some measure of comfort to the Bibas family and bring the long-awaited coming of Moshiach now!

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Rabbi Yitzi and Rishi Hein


An open Miracle! By Hillel Fuld (@hillelfuld)

Since day one, I’ve been telling anyone who will listen that since 10/7, we’ve witnessed so many miracles, it’s hard to count.

Some of these miracles are easy to recognize, like how well the beeper operation went down or how successful we were at intercepting or detonating those hundreds of drones and ballistic missiles fired at us from Iran. Twice.

Other miracles were harder to recognize.

And then we have last night.

Last night was a miracle the caliber of the splitting of the sea.

I am talking an open miracle that could and should have ended very differently.

Do not ask me for my source and if that means you don’t believe what I’m about to say, so be it. You can keep scrolling. But if you know my work, you know I’m very careful with what I share so if I’m sharing this, trust me, it’s based on a reliable source.

Last night, a young lady noticed a suspicious object on a bus in the center of Israel. She reported it to the driver who pulled into a station, got everyone off the bus, at which point, the bus blew up and was completely destroyed.

But that wasn’t the end of it. Not even close.

Over the hours that followed, an additional four bombs were discovered on buses, some of them exploded, others were taken apart before exploding. Some malfunctioned.

According to my source, and this was news to me, a whopping 15 buses were supposed to explode this morning. According to reports, the terrorist set the timer for 9 PM instead of 9 AM.

So is that the worst of it? Not even close.

In addition to the 15 buses, 5 suicide bombers were set to detonate bombs on the lightrail at the same time, all in the center of Israel.

So is that the worst? Nope. That’s the good part.

Where did this attack originate? Gaza? Nope. Judea and Samaria. In other words, these terrorists came from within Israel. 

And here’s the kicker, and again, I am not telling you where I heard this, all of the above was intended to be nothing more than the distraction, much like the incoming rockets on 10/7. Just a distraction for the real invasion. 

My source says that as those buses and terrorists blew up, massive security and emergency forces were supposed to rush to the scene at which point, there would be a massive breach of the security fence and many terrorists from Judea and Samaria would invade Israel and carry out a 10/7 2.0. Only this time it wouldn’t be from Gaza so it would be an invasion into basically every major city in Israel.

For the third time, this is not information that is publicly available. I can’t share a link and I won’t share a source. Believe me or don’t. Up to you.

It is worth pointing out that for decades, we did not have any bus explosions in Israel. We do this deal and release terrorists, some of whom were the architects behind the bus bombings during the intifada, and all of a sudden, we’re back to buses blowing up.

I can’t imagine anyone believing that that’s a coincidence. 

All of this was supposed to go down during rush hour and would have caused hundreds, maybe thousands of Israelis deaths.

Even if the rest isn’t true, multiple buses blowing up like this bus during rush hour? Can’t even imagine.

Yesterday morning was one of the hardest days in Israel’s history. Perhaps the hardest. We all felt hopeless, every last one of us.

When we are in pain, God is in pain with us.

I don’t know about you, but yesterday morning, as I saw the coffins of the Bibas angels, I looked up to Hashem and asked why. Why would he cause us so much pain or allow Hamas to do this to us??

I told myself that we’ll be ok but wasn’t sure if that was true. Was God even watching over us any more? Has He abandoned us? Did He turn His back on us?

Then, as the hostages were being delivered, a beautiful rainbow appeared in the Israeli skies, a sign from the times of Noah, that God won’t ever destroy the world or let it be destroyed. A rainbow, according to Jewish scripture, is God’s way of telling us, “Don’t worry. I got your back.”

Still, though, I was just so sad and so angry.

And then the news started to hit my feeds.

A bus exploded. No injuries.

Hmm, “How does that happen?” I asked myself.

Then another bus exploded. No injuries. And a third. No injuries.

I already felt God’s presence again. I could breathe again. 

And the news kept coming in. More bombs discovered. More intel. This was supposed to be the biggest attack since 10/7, maybe even bigger.

Totally thwarted.

By who? The IDF? Nope.

Shabak? Nope.

Mossad? Nope.

This was a massive attack prevented 100% by God Himself. And a very vigilant young lady who noticed the suspicious object.

Whatever Hamas planned or didn’t plan for this morning, I would not be writing these words if their plan had come to fruition. But God had other plans and after all the pain God’s children endured yesterday, He felt we needed to be reminded of His presence. He felt we needed to be reminded that He has our back, now and always. He was right. We did need it.

This event might go down in history as one of the biggest miracles the Jewish people experienced since biblical times.

“There are two ways to live life. One is that nothing is a miracle. The other is that everything is a miracle.”

Some will explain how the Iron Dome works and therefore conclude that it’s not a miracle. The same for David’s Sling and the Arrow system.

Some will explain how all of those rockets and drones not intercepted by Israel fell in empty spaces. They might not believe that that too was a miracle.

The beepers? The walkie talkies? Getting Nasrallah? Haniyeh? Deif? They’ll attribute all of that to Israel’s intelligence.

But this? What happened last night? Israel had nothing to do with it. If you don’t see this event as a miracle, there is only one explanation. You don’t want to see it as a miracle.

Open your eyes. Clean your lenses. Hashem is here with us in our pain and each day that passes, we are one day closer to Him finally revealing Himself to us, explaining why any of this had to happen, and ultimately bringing mashiach.

For now, I just wanted to recognize Hashem’s greatness and on behalf of the hundreds, maybe thousands of Israelis who should be dead right now, just say thank you.

‎‏הודו לה השם כי טוב כי לעולם חסדו

Give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever.

‎בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה' אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם הַגּוֹמֵל לְחַיָּבִים טוֹבוֹת, שֶׁגְּמָלַנִי כָּל טוּב

Blessed are you, O Lord, our God, King of the Universe, who rewards good deeds, who rewards me for every good thing

We say that blessing when we are saved from tragedy. Today, the Jewish nation was saved from tragedy.

Thank you, Hashem.

Jewish Thought of the Week (02/13/2025)

 

Dear Friends, 
 
 
Ever have a dilemma of having 2 good options?

 

I had that dilemma when choosing the topic of this email. Should I talk about Thursday's Jewish holiday of Tu B'Shvat...or something about the epic Parsha of Yitro  with the story of the Giving of the Torah and Ten Commandments?

 

Choices, choices,choices.

 

So here is my resolution: both. But in a short version.

 

Here's Tu B'Shvat in short: We had our monthly Men's Torah and Whiskey Weds night and discussed how humans can map themselves out like a tree. Here is the great article we discussed

 

And now here is a longer but readable thought from the unparalleled writer Yanki Tauber. In it he writes about what the Giving of the Torah means to us and how it (even subliminally) guides our lives today in 2025.

 

How to Have by Yanki Tauber

 

What do you have? And what makes it yours?

Look around you and make a mental list of the things that are "yours": your husband or wife; your children; your home; your job; your knowledge; your car; your socks; your friends; your reputation; your magazine subscriptions --

These things differ greatly from each other. They differ also in the meaning of the word "your" as applied to them. But they are all, in some sense, yours. How did you come to possess them?

Certain things you earned. You paid for them with cash, toil and derring-do. Perhaps these are the things from which you derive your deepest sense of accomplishment. You are invested in them. You have achieved them.

Certain things were given to you. A brand new car that is a gift from your parents. A wise man you met somewhere taught you something you would never have figured out on your own. Someone loves you, generously, more than you deserve to be loved. Perhaps these are the things that you desire most of all. After all, you could never have achieved them on your own. They are beyond you; they belong to a reality greater than yourself. Being gifted these things means that you have transcended your limitations.

Finally, certain things are yours because they are inherently, intrinsically, yours. They are your birthright, your inheritance. You did nothing to earn them and no one gave them to you: you posses them by virtue of who and what you are. Your soul. Your mind. Your inborn talents. Your homeland. Your traditions.

Perhaps these things do not afford you the depth of fulfillment you get from the things you earn. Perhaps you do not experience the intensity of desire and striving for them evoked by the "gifts" of life. But these are more yours than anything else you possess.

Your earning power will fluctuate as you traverse the rises and dips of life, as you grow or diminish in strength, mental proficiency and spiritual sensitivity. The gifts you receive will always depend on forces beyond your control. But the things that are inherently yours will be yours in all circumstances and under all conditions. Even if you reject them and disavow them, they will remain ever, irrevocably yours.


G‑d. Ever since, the event is referred to in the language of our sages as the "Giving of the Torah." Indeed, the Torah calls itself our "gift from the desert" (Numbers 21:18).

The Torah, however, also describes itself as Israel's "acquisition" (Proverbs 4:2), as well as "the inheritance of the congregation of  background-image: url("/images/1/global/glossary_underline.gif"); background-position: 50% 100%; background-repeat: repeat-x;">Jacob" (Deuteronomy 33:4).


So which is it — gift, acquisition or inheritance?

The Torah is an acquisition for which we must struggle and toil, which becomes ours through diligent study and meticulous observance. As such, we experience the deep sense of fulfillment that only a fully-earned achievement can bring.

The Torah is a divine gift, for its wisdom is above and beyond anything our finite selves could attain. As such, it wakens our most transcendent strivings, elevating us above our temporality and mortality, making of us infinitely more than we are on our own.

And the Torah is our inheritance, our birthright. As such it is always ours. Even when we do not earn it. Even when we close ourselves to the gift of it being bestowed upon us from above. For it is of a piece with our essence.

Shabbat Shalom/Good Shabbos,
Yitzi

Jewish Thought of the Week (02/07/2025)

 

Dear Friends,

We can learn a lesson about leadership from this week’s Parsha, Beshalach. It is known as Shabbos Shira, the Shabbos of Song, because in Beshalach the great miracle of the splitting of the Sea unfolds. The Jews are finally safe from the Egyptians, and “Moshe (leading) the children of Israel sang this Song to Hashem: I will sing to G-d for He is very exalted; horse and rider he cast into the sea”. 


The children of Israel actually numbered a few million people whom Moshe led in the singing. How did the logistics work? How did millions of people sing the same song? 


This is discussed in the Gemara (Talmud) and three views are shared. Rabbi Akiva says that Moshe sang the song and the Israelites responded, stanza by stanza. Moshe said Ashira LaHashem (I will sing to G-d) and the people answered with this refrain (Ashira LaHashem). Moshe then said the next phrase: “for He is very exalted” and they responded Ashira LaHashem. And so they sang this same refrain for all of the verses. They affirmed Moshe’s singing and expressed their commitment by singing just the chorus. 


According to Rabbi Eliezer, the people actually sang each verse after Moshe, repeating that verse. They became loyal followers who themselves sang what Moshe had sung.6


Rabbi Nechemia says that Moshe began the Song, and all the people then followed and they all sang these entire song together! Everyone experienced Divine inspiration.


These three views can be seen as three different paradigms of leadership. In the first, Moshe led and only he sang these entire song whole song; whereas the others affirmed their total commitment and acceptance of his leadership.


The second approach to leadership is where the people were good disciples, following Moshe’s lead.


The third aspect of leadership is where Moshe begins, sets the goal and the tone; and ultimately everyone sings the entire song. It is with their own initiative, yet totally loyal to Moshe’s song.


All three paradigms are needed, depending on the situation. The sign of the ultimate leader is his ability to inspire the third aspect. As Rabbi Lord Sacks zl said (about the Rebbe): Good leaders create followers. Great leaders create leaders.


This Shabbos is the tenth of Shevat, known as Yud Sheva. It is the Yahrzeit of the sixth Chabad Rebbe (Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok) and the day that the Rebbe assumed the leadership of the seventh generation. 


The Rebbe’s teachings and vision have been adopted widely by Klal Yisrael, especially in Chabad, Shluchim and Shluchos (emissaries) as well as many more lay people, who are meticulous in following the Rebbe’s teachings and example; and using their initiative in trying to reach out to bring Redemption to the individual and the world 
(Thank you to Rabbi Shmuel for sharing these thoughts we me and others -may he blessed long healthy years to keep sharing Torah).


Shabbat Shalom!
Good Shabbos!
Rabbi Yitzi Hein
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